Parading

Yesterday, the kids walked in their first parade. The attorney I work with is running for Probate Judge, and we joined him as he shook hands, kissed babies, etc., etc. in the St. Patrick's Day parade here in South Bend. As you can imagine, there are at least a few people in this area who get pretty excited about all things Irish, and even more people were excited about being able to spend the day outside in mid-March, so there was a pretty good crowd.

We lined up right next to the bagpipe band. It was right before the kids would normally have lunch, so the almonds and raisins I brought along were eagerly gobbled up by Matthew and Chiara. When we started off, the parade was going quite fast - it was hard to keep up with everybody else and still hand out the campaign materials and talk to anyone about them. After a while, I got used to giving them out with one hand while holding Matthew's hand with the other. On the other side of the street, Charmaine was walking with Chiara, who was demonstrating scarily capable parade technique: waving like a pageant contestant, executing some dancing and spinning at certain times. I only got a chance to see it a few times at the end, but evidently she was a big hit. We have no idea where she picks these things up, but she definitely has a sense of theatricality.

It was so warm that by the end we were all glad that it only really a seven-block-long parade -that's a real perk of parades in small cities. Chiara will probably always enjoy playing to the crowd, but I don't think Matthew would want to march in a parade again without anything particular to do - performing would probably work for him, but just walking along bored him silly. Who knows when their next parade might be - could be seven or eight years from now, for all I now - but whenever that is, I wonder what they will remember about their first time?

A holiday smorgasbord of thoughts

We will be going on a holiday trip to Sri Lanka - I haven't been there for over six years, and obviously, it isn't something we ever expect to do very regularly (although that would be nice). Considering we are bringing two small children, the preparation has been relatively relaxing, so much so that we've actually been able to enjoy the holiday events of the last two weeks. Last night was Matthew's Christmas concert at school. He has enjoyed each and every school performance he has been in, so he had a great time. He LOVES any song he can do dances and moves to, and the video (which we promise to post) shows some of his greatest hits. (Another greatest hit: his incomparable "It's Raining Men" for Just Dance 2 on the Wii. It's superb.)

What makes the video extra special is that just days before, Matthew lost his right front tooth that had been falling out forEVER. Now, not only does he have a huge gap where that tooth used to be, but the OTHER front tooth has migrated toward the center of his mouth, so now he looks like he has just one crazy snaggletooth right in the middle. I'm looking forward to seeing how the pictures of him that we take in Sri Lanka turn out!

I'm also looking forward to watching both of them read more and more over the holiday break. They both have started to read much more avidly in the last three months; Matthew was at first reluctant to read words he didn't already know, but his inhibitions have almost totally dropped away at this point. Chiara seems to realize that some words are SUPPOSED to be hard, but she doesn't let that stop her - she recently read a page and then told me "Kangaroo is a really long word!" They like to read just about everything around them, signs, labels, captions - it will be interesting to see what they make of the Sinhala and Tamil alphabets that, along with English, are on every surface in Sri Lanka.

We will probably not post again until we get back - which would be pretty frequent for me! Until then, Merry Christmas, and have a Happy New Year!

The diligent blogger

So one of the foremost rules of publishing is "content, content, content," and the Internet has added one crucial addendum: "frequent, frequent, frequent." And because I am SOOO committed to blogging for a mass audience, I diligently observe those rules and am now posting for the second time in only - six-and-a-half months. Oh, well, it HAS been a busy, eventful, but overall very good last six months, so I'll give myself a pass - this time. The kids give me enough material that I really could do this more frequently - I just have to remember to do so (reminders are welcome). So, without further ado -

Yesterday, Matthew came to me before school and asked "Do artists have to be only men?" I'm used to having to help the kids overcome the overwhelming numerical dominance of depictions of men in the arts (quick, name me a truly FAMOUS female composer?), so I explained why he might not see many examples of artists who are women, but that there ARE a lot of artists who are women. Then he smiled broadly and said, "I know an artist who is a woman: Grandma Moses." I spent a brief moment in surprise that the first grade art class was talking about Grandma Moses, but wow - that's a pretty good first-grade art class. And good for Matthew, he really pays attention in art class.

Today, Chiara's teacher told me that Chiara (who loves, loves, loves to talk, and now loves, loves, loves to write) asked her how to spell chocolate. The teacher began spelling - c-h-o-c - and then had to do something else, then came back to Chiara. She thought she had left off at the "l", so she said "a", and Chiara stopped her and said "No, it's O". Aside from the fact that she was aware of how to spell chocolate, this was also one of the prime examples of one of Chiara's favorite ways of engaging in conversation: asking you a question to which she already knows the answer. I wish it was always that cute - it is frequently more frustrating than cute to find out that you just spent ten minutes answering her question that she already knew. But I'm slowly catching on - and it sure seems like she will be well suited to a career as a courtroom lawyer, a teacher, or anyone else who solicits answers to their expert questions.


The Photographic Stylings of Matthew J.S. Torma

Matthew got a kid's camera for Christmas, and it didn't take long for him to develop his own style. Very intimate, very candid, and very, um, bold - that pretty much describes it. Here are a few examples of his work:






























As you can tell, he has a favorite subject.

Hello - We're back (and under new management

I've had this on my to-do list for a long time (it hasn't formally been on the list for more than a couple of days, but I meant to put it there...), so it's about time our blog got going again. Of course, the voice will be a little different - Mark is holding the fort at home right now, and Charmaine is at Saint Mary's, trying not to let them know how much credit they should get for her awesomeness. So one of us will blog a LITTLE more than the other, I'm betting.

It's been a LONG time since we've posted, but this will be more like a status update than a year-in-review. Matthew is enjoying school, and Chiara is absolutely champing at the bit to go to school, too, so it's a good thing that she will go to the Early Childhood Development Center at Saint Mary's next school year. She will love it, I think, at least a little more than being at home with Daddy who can only keep up with a four-year-old's need for interaction for so long. But she keeps a brave face.

At this moment, what is inevitably holding my attention is the long slog towards Monday, when I find out if I passed the Indiana Bar Exam. I would like to say I know that I passed - and I guess the chances are probably pretty good - but one has to know that there's always the possibility that you haven't, and the specific Indiana law they tested on was sufficiently weird enough to make me wonder. The good news is, EVERYBODY seemed to think the topics were mysteries to them, too. Even so, the last two months have been excruciating - it was a lot easier waiting for bar results when I was working two or three jobs. But in three days I will know - I can't wait...

First Week of Summer!

Monday, June 15th - Saturday, June 20th, 2009

This week was the first full week of summer with Matthew Aiya and Ammie made sure we were busy. On Monday, she arranged a park/pool playdate with her friend from the 'hood, Sara Bergen and her three kiddies: Milo, Emmett, and baby Frankie. The playdate was at McRae Park and when we arrived Milo and Emmett were already in the pool. Even though the pool was enticing, both Matthew and I had other plans...



Such as eating fresh watermellon that Ammie just cut up for us and drinking a nice cool cup of milk. Mmm! It was tasty!



We were at the park from 11am - 2pm (the longest Ammie has ever been at a park), and even though we were playing on the playground, we really enjoyed being in the pool.


Ammie thought Matthew wouldn't want to get into this pool because it wasn't his "normal" pool, but he just jumed right in and started playing.



I, on the other hand, was a bit more tentative and once the older kids started rough housing and splashing, I got out of the pool quite quickly.



Because of the rain and Ammie's need to do a little shopping (groceries and stuff), we went to Eden Prairie Mall. First, Ammie bought her nonperishable items at Target, and then we headed to the play area. Here I am riding on one of the ladybugs.




Here is a candid shot of me trying to get onto the snowmobile. You can really see my "fake" boo boos.





Here is Matthew climbing the tall mountain in the play area...this is his favorite perch in the whole playarea.





Here I am crawling out of a snow tunnel. Unlike Matthew, who LOVES playing here, I was bored after 15 minutes and kept asking Ammie to go home. Her response, if Matthew is ready to go, then we can leave. Guess what, he was not ready to go home!

On Wednesday, Thursday and Friday, Ammie was exhausted and we didn't go anywhere. We just played in our backyard. Wait, I should ammend that. I played in the backyard; Matthew doesn't really enjoy playing there, and Ammie read her book and talked to us.
On Saturday morning, Ammie took me and Matthew grocery shopping. It was an alright excursion, although it was a bit stressful for Ammie (good thing we did it at 8am in the morning). Today was also our first day of swimming at the YWCA.



Here is Matthew all excited to swim and I am behind him, a bit anxious, I am afraid. I remember my first swimming experience at McRae park on Monday.



Here I am at the pool with Daddy. Can you see the look of fear and panic in my eyes? I got dunked while with Daddy and I DID NOT enjoy that at all. I stormed out of the pool to the best of my ability.



Matthew Aiya LOVED swimming. He got into the pool immediately and went down this slide with no trepidation. Of course, he has been coming to this pool since January with his class at Longfellow.




Daddy is trying to make swimming fun for my by holding me over one of the fountains. Even though I was smiling, I still kept asking to go home. To be honest, earlier, I told Ammie that "I don't like THIS swimming." Ammie thought it was funny; I do not know why.



Here is the final shot of Matthew in the pool before we left. It was a very productive swimming lesson for him...he was jumping in the water, held his breath, floated and kicked his legs! When the next swim session starts he won't need Ammie and Daddy there at all! I, on the other hand, will definitely need to take the Parent & Me Swim Class.
~Chiara~

Family Fun Night at Longfellow

Monday, June 8th, 2009

Every month my school, Longfellow, hosts a Family Fun Night and tonight we had the final Fun Night of the School Year. Ammie didn't know if she was up to going since she was exhausted from her Ladies Weekend at SMC, but she went because she loves me .~Matthew~



One of the first things I did, was run around and throw some soft balls...a game of bombardment

After throwing the ball over the wall, I almost skidded into the wall...so fun!



Here is Chiara Nangi jumping...she tried doing it solo, but she still doesn't have the balance



I am showing Daddy and Chiara Nangi how to swing on the rope



As you can see, I am not a fan of sitting on the knot, but instead I hold on tight, run and SWING!



Here I am as the leader in the fire truck...Ammie had a difficult time getting any good pictures on me in this. I was going really, really fast; I loved it!




Chiara Nangi discovered the water fountain and she kept wanting to get more and more water.




This was the huge jumping structure. At first, I wasn't interested in jumping in it, but once Teacher Ellen got me in there, no one could get me out.



Ammie was able to get a video clip of me jumping; I can't stop watching it!


Here is Chiara Nangi trying to jump...she didn't enjoy it as much, and as soon as she could stand up, she got out of there.




A police officer and a fire truck came to school...unfortunately, it was so cold that we could only stay to see the cop car, but we could not wait in the long, long line to ride the fire truck...I mean fire engine.